Alcoholism

[healing.spirit]

I would appreciate any sharing on healing alcoholism with signature cell healing.  I am working with a family of alcoholics...I feel a bit overwhelmed.  The father is only 52 and has tumor on his left jaw.  After our first session, he had a major shift...the tumor was shrinking, he wanted to go back to work the very next week.  Then family issues began to confront him once again...he had two daughters in their twenties living at home...both were put in jail within a day of each other because of alcohol.  Too much to type here but you can get the feel of the story.

This man now is so stressed and focused on family issues he has shifted back into cancer mode and the tumor is growing again, etc.

Any suggestion would be appreciated.   

Mahalo

[Brighteyes Elven]

Aloha Healing Spirit

I don't know if you have had a new opportunity to give this man a healing. I think it is very important to work on his self-love first. When he gets to the understanding that it is so important to feel and experience the love for him self, he will understand the only way to guide his daughters is doing the same. All healing is coming from the Love and Light within. Focus on that part and he will walk on his healing path again.

Blessings
Brighteyes Elven

[healing.spirit]

Thank you Brighteyes for your reply.  I am working on this person/ family in distance healing presently.  I feel it is as if more to hold a space for his/ their journey.  The father has declined further healing sessions at this point, though I suspect that will change.  I believe you are correct in your theory of self love first...presently he is just so stressed...so I am honoring his journey, holding that space in love, working multi dimensionally.  His issue of control feels to me as an iron wall restricting him from any other reality right now.

It is also important to realize that for me, this is also a step away from control.  I have spent my life as a "fixer".  I'm sure you know the routine...lol Presently,  I feel as the angels must feel...holding a space, surrounding the ones in question with the vibration of our hearts...honoring the journey.

Again, thank you for your input...I do appreciate your support so much!

[healing.spirit]

I just realized I needed to answer your question - Ivan came to me for a healing session the day after he had signed up for Hospice.  I incorporated craniosacral with signature cell as well as just opening my heart and sharing what I call Divine Love energy from Creator.  After the session he actually told me that he felt "empowered", that he felt a shift during the session.  He was very much at peace at that moment.  For the first time, he was presented with the idea of focusing on his healing journey...that we each are traveling our own.

The next week he was doing so well he said he was ready to go back to work, the tumor was shrinking, the Hospice nurse actually was asking "what is this man doing in Hospice!"

Since his focus has turned away from himself and back to his family drama...it's as if he made a choice to step back in time. He is back in to control mode and very much into stress.   But there are some things going on that we might view as positive. He has been discharged from Hospice and is under the supervision of a local doctor who is now supporting him with chem treatments.  It sounds as if some sort of financial aid is in place and also his disability checks began the week before Christmas. I let him know that the healing sessions would support his chemo in a very positive way and that all he needed to do was make a phone call.

I continue to hold a space for him, understanding he is working thru something important within himself.  He has not asked for another healing session.  He has had the gift of the experience and I feel it is so important for him to make the decision.

I am also looking at what gift this experience is giving to me...making the choice to allow his choices is really huge...remember me, the "fixer"  

Thank you again for your input and support!

[Brighteyes Elven]

Hi Healing Spirit

Oh I know so well what you mean by 'fixer'. I guess most of us sooner or later got trapped in the temtation to 'fix'. In the old energy this worked quit a while and pretty well for most of us; healer and healee. In the new energy we are considered to be the 'Human Angels' and like all the other Angels around us, like them we also need to be asked. So I think you are doing a great job by honoring this father, waiting for his request or not. Sometimes it turnes out the healing journey is not in getting healed the way we think it should be, but the way his soul and Higher Self are thinking / feeling the way it should be. Holding space with LOVE is so important and the only thing you can do right now, without judging your self or him.

Many blessings and Love & Light
Brighteyes

[healing.spirit]

           Blessings and Thank you for your wisdom, Brighteyes